Sunday, March 19, 2017

Jonah: The God of Second Chances

Text: Jonah 3:1-10

Summary:
God proves to be a God of second chances, not only for Jonah but also for the Ninevites.  Jonah preaches a message of repentance, the people turn from their sin, and the city is spared.


Icebreaker: When was a second chance last given to you?  (warning from a police officer, retake a test that you may have failed the first time, boss let you try a project again after you dropped the ball the first time)


#1. Starting in Jonah 1, how many "second chances" do you see in this text?
1:2- God tells Jonah to go to Nineveh but he says no
a. God sends a storm to stop Jonah (2nd chance)
b. The sailors tell Jonah to pray to God (3rd chance)
c. God provides a whale to save Jonah's life (4th chance)
d. God tells the fish to spit Jonah out on dry land (5th chance)

1:5- When the storm was raging, the sailors cried out to their own gods.
a. God spared their life when they threw Jonah over and they started to worship even though they chose their own gods the first time. (2nd chance)

3:4- God tells the Ninevites that destruction is coming
a. They repent and turn back to God, so in 3:10 God spares their life (2nd chance)


So what 2nd chances has God given you in your life?


#2.  So why did God allow Jonah, the Ninevites, and YOU to have a second chance?  Why didn't he just make them pay for their sins?  Why didn't he just find another prophet to use since Jonah was so reluctant?  Why doesn't God just turn His back on us?


#3.  In 3:5-9, we see that the King went ALL-IN on turning back to God.  He even made the animals fast!  Such a harsh message proves a few things:
a. God is very serious about our sins.
b. That we need to take drastic measures to turn from our sin and back to God.

-So why are so few people (including Christians) so nonchalant about their sins?  What are some common reactions to sins in our lives?  (ignore it, blame someone else, pretend like its not really that big of a deal).

-What does "sackcloth, ashes, and fasting" look like for you today?  In essence, what would it look like for you to get serious about your sin like Nineveh did?


#4- Jonah's second chance led to a decision, and his decision to obey God led to life change for the people of Nineveh.  How does it make you feel to know that your YES or NO to Jesus could impact your entire family, coworkers, neighbors, friends, and all of REVO? (sense of urgency, huge responsibility, need to get serious about it, weight on your shoulders)


#5- 3:10 closes with Scripture saying "God SAW what they DID."  Too often, we make verbal commitments to God in our prayers, but don't follow through with them in our lives.  What promises have you made God in the past that you need to put into action this week?  Knowing that everyone has a next step to take, what is your next step this week in lieu of this text?




Sunday, March 12, 2017

Jonah: Prayers from the Gut

Read Jonah 2:1–10

Scripture Summary (read or paraphrase to your group):

In Jonah 2, we find the prophet in the belly of a great fish–where he spent three days and three nights. Often, we read Jonah's story and consider the fish to be an instrument of judgment. We think, "If Jonah had not disobeyed, then he would not have wound up in such a bad position." However, had God not provided the fish, Jonah would certainly have died (v. 5). Just before drowning, Jonah cried out to God in repentance (v. 7). In verse 7, Jonah "remembered" the Lord. This term is used frequently throughout Scripture. To remember does not simply mean to call to mind something that was forgotten. It is a call to action. A call to remember is a call to act on that which is remembered (see also 1 Cor. 7:23-32 for the role of remembering in the Lord's Supper). Jonah remembered what the Lord was like and acted on that knowledge by crying out to Him!

Even while Jonah was in the belly of a great fish, god heard and responded to his prayer. No one's rebellion places them beyond God's redemptive reach. In response, god provided the fish to rescue Jonah from the consequences of disobedience. The fish is a surprising instrument of salvation! Jonah realizes this and prays the prayer contained in this chapter. Its theme is captured in the last phrase (v. 9): "Salvation belongs to the Lord!" In Matthew 12:40-41, Jesus associates his death, burial, and resurrection with Jonah's time spent in the belly of a great fish. People, like the Pharisees, viewed the cross as an instrument of divine judgment. Anyone who died on a cross was considered cursed by God. However, God sent Jesus to die on the cross in order to save people from their rebellion. As God brought Jonah's life from the pit (v. 6), God would vindicate His Son, securing salvation for all who believe. He would raise Jesus from the grave after three days in the tomb. The message of the Gospel shows the world that "Salvation belongs to the Lord!"

Group Discussion Questions:

Jonah avoided talking to God because he was running from God. What kinds of things keep you from praying?

By the time Jonah prayed, he had been in the middle of a storm, tossed into the sea, swallowed by a large fish, and in the belly of it for 3 days and nights. How can you relate to this? What do you need to surrender in order for you to seek God first and at all times?

What happens when God wants a person to do something, but the person doesn't want God to do it?
(Jonah shows us that God has a way of bringing us to the place where we want what He wants.)

In chapter 1, the sailors literally cast Jonah overboard into the sea. But who does Jonah say cast him into the deep in Jonah 2:3? Why is that a crucial so crucial for Jonah, and to your life?
(Jonah sees that he has never been out of God's hands, though he tried to run from Him.)

What does it mean to remember the Lord?
(To act on that which is remembered.)

Why is it important to act on that which is remembered rather than to just think about it?

In what ways is the Gospel a surprising instrument of salvation?
(We've done so much wrong, yet God's salvation is free to us, but paid through His own son, Jesus.)

Why didn't God give up on Jonah? Why hasn't He given up on you?
(Because He had a plan for Jonah, and has one for you! He cares about the message and the messenger.)

How does knowing that no one is beyond God's redemptive reach shape your confidence in approaching and executing the Great Commission?

When Jonah decided to turn to God (repent), he prayed (2:1–9). As you look to God right now, what is your prayer?

Sunday, March 5, 2017

Jonah: Hide and Seek

Jonah 1:1–17

Introduction:

Why do adults often think that stories in the Bible (like Jonah) are for children?

Vs. 1–3

What is it in your life right now that God has called you to do – and trust Him with it – that you're running away from?

What was Jonah's view of the Ninevites and why? Who do you tend to view in the same way?

How do you run or escape from God's commands? What is your Tarshish?

Vs 4–5

What simple "next step" are you falling asleep on?

Have you given up on God's plans because you've settled for the storms? What needs to change in order for you to realize God does have a better plan for you?

What's the danger in pretending we don't know what God is calling us to do? Is procrastinating disobedience?

Vs 6–15

Others are affected when we sin; especially those closest to us. How does this reality help you make the right decisions?

Who do you need to communicate with in order to restore the broken relationship because of your sin?

Vs 16–17

What people in your life do you think God wants to reach, and can use your confession and repentance in order to do so?

When was the last time God nudged you to speak his truth to someone who needed to hear it? How did you respond?

What storms have you faced in your life that reshaped how you understood God and the world?

Conclusion:

What step are you going to take as you leave rGroup today/tonight? Share how the group can support you.


Sunday, February 26, 2017

Annual Growth: Don't Stop Running

Read Hebrews 12:1–3.

Scripture Context:

Believers under persecution had to continue trusting Jesus. The writer of Hebrews provided a list of individuals in the Old Testament who had been faithful to God in Hebrews 11. In Hebrews 12, he instructs Christians to follow the examples of those heroes of the faith, and to keep trusting Christ. He compared trusting the Lord to running a race.

We (Christians) have no better choice than to keep on moving ahead our relationship with Jesus. Instead of being paralyzed by difficulty, we should be determined to keep trusting Him in all trials and difficult times (Hebrews 12:12-13).

Group Discussion:

What would you find the most difficult about running a marathon? Would you rather run a marathon or series of sprints? Why?

What is the "therefore" there for?
(Refer to context of chapter 11 above.)

Explain the phrase "we have so great a cloud of witnesses." Who are they? Are they watching us?
(The Saints who have gone before us, the heroes of the faith that have given their lives for the sake of Christ, are surrounding us and cheering us on! Their lives stand as a testimony of faith and encourage us to run the race with vigor and endurance.)

What is the difference between a "weight" and "sin?" What kinds of things could be weights, but perhaps not sin?
(We often focus on the "BIG" sins that we tend to avoid, but the small ones that we do not pay much attention to, like lying, gossiping, envying, worrying, any hobby more important than God, etc. really slow us down, too. Weights are burdens that impede us from running like we should.)

What impression do you have of the word "entangle?"
(caught in, stuck, difficulties or complicated circumstances which are difficult to escape)

How do these weights and sin slow us down?

What is the race that we are in? What does it mean that the race is "set before us?"
(The Christian life that we are called to stay the course and remain faithful to the end. God established it, and so we run for Christ.)

What kind of race needs endurance? What's the spiritual metaphor here?

Where are we to keep our eyes focused? Why is this so important?
(To pursue something, you have to know what the goal is.)

What does it mean that He is the "author" of our faith? How about "perfecter?"
(An author is an originator, creator, captain, chief leader. Jesus is the originator of our faith in that he begins it. "Perfecter" means "completer" or "finisher" and speaks of bringing something to conclusion. Jesus as God, both creates and sustains our faith.)

What do you think was the joy that was set before Him?
(Fulfilling the will of His Father. Everything Jesus did while on earth was about the glory of God. His joy was found in the Father. Also, who He was doing this for – you and me! We were His joy and still are.)

How does considering the persecution Jesus faced help us not grow weary?

Action Steps / Personal Decisions

What sins entangle you and keep you from running the race for Jesus? Confess those sins and strive to run in God's freedom.

Up to this point, what has been your finish line? Confess these things you've put before God.

What do you need to do to change your finish line and begin running after Jesus?

Sunday, February 19, 2017

Annual Growth: For Those Not Yet Here

When did you guys put your faith in Christ? Childhood, before high school, college, afterwards, etc.? Share a couple of stories.

Before we look at the text and discuss it, what are some of the ways that unbelievers are described in the Bible? Terms, descriptions?

Read Luke 15:1–2.

What were the Pharisees complaining about? Why would they be complaining about this?

If this story were retold today with you cast as a Pharisee, who might you be complaining about? Where is Jesus working that you are not willing to?

As Jesus often did, He skipped the direct attack and told a story. Why do that? What's the value of a parable?

Read vs. 3–7.

The key to understanding a parable is to realize it has one main point. Could somebody retell the story and emphasize the main point?

What does this story teach us about the character of God?

What does this story teach us about ourselves?

What does this story suggest about how Jesus would feel if you were to repent?

What are you doing to reach the lost sheep like the Good Shepherd does?

What would have happened to the lost sheep had the shepherd not looked for it? (It would die.) Do you ever see the lost as dying? How does that perspective urge you to seek the lost?

Jesus intentionally went out to seek and surround himself with lost people. How can you do the same this week and from now on?

What happens to a church (a body of believers) if they are happy with the 99 and don't care about the 1?

Discuss some ways that can make it as easy as possible for people to find and follow Jesus?

Pray: Confess and repent of how you've strayed from God's direction. Ask God to burden you for the lost and dying the same way the Good Shepherd is.

Sunday, February 12, 2017

Annual Growth: On Top or In the Middle?

1 Samuel 1:1–28

Since you're at rGroup right now, it's safe to say that Jesus is probably part of your life. There are probably times where God is even the most important or top priority in your life, too. But in order to experience real spiritual growth, we need to place God at the center of our lives and let everything else extend from Him. He's the hub of the wheel, and everything else is going on in our lives flows from who we are in Him.

Hannah's story in 1 Samuel 1 shows us the healthy picture of how God is at the center of everything.

Context: Each year, Elkanah would take his two wives, Hannah and Peninnah, to Shiloh to present a sacrifice to God and worship the Lord at the Tabernacle there. And every year it was the same for Hannah: the same insulting comments from Peninnah; the same emptiness that her husband could never fill. She walked away with her deepest desire unmet. She desired children, but God had not opened her womb.

Childbearing was a very important part of Middle Eastern culture during the Old Testament times. Children were a source of labor for the family and a sign of success for the women who bore them. Having no children was a sign of failure, so Hannah was a marked woman, a social outcast, a loser.

Let's read Hannah's story, and discuss 4 ways she demonstrated real spiritual growth.

Read Vs 1–5.

4 Ways to Grow:

1. Trust in God

Vs 5 - God had a different plan than Hannah, so Hannah trusted God.

What does it mean to trust God?

What's the difference between passive trust and active trust?

Give an example of a scenario in which you are fully trusting God with right now.

Just because you're facing hardships, it doesn't mean you're not where God wants you to be.

When God's in the center of our lives, our faith is focused and doesn't shift easily. That's a sign of growth.

2. Communicate with God

Vs 9–11 - Hannah went to the temple (the dwelling place of the presence of God). She didn't hold it within, turn to others, rely on coping mechanisms, or her own abilities and intellect. She went to God.

Why should we always go to God first?

When we don't communicate with God, what does that reveal about our spiritual health?

Why do you think that so many Christians struggle to see God as a personal reality in their lives?

What counsel would you give to a Christian who finds themselves lured to distractions when they're trying to pray?

When you understand and see God for who He truly is, what happens to you when you enter into His presence? And how does that change you?

3. Trust in God's timing

Vs 12–16 - Hannah's been asking, knocking, and seeking God for a long time! Her prayer had fervency, repetition and urgency behind it. It wasn't impatient, or one-and-done.

Vs 17–20 - God gave Hannah peace FIRST, even before He answered her prayer. Why?

Do you know people who exude peace? If you know their story, what can you learn from them?

What's the correlation between God's purposes and His timing?

What's the consequential difference between impatiently complaining and intentionally learning? What's the spiritual difference between those?

4. Keep Your Commitments to God

Vs 26–28 - Hannah followed through with her sacrificial commitment to God.

Do you think that Hannah's commitment to God had anything to do with why she received the blessing from God?

What commitments have you made to God?

What commitments do you need to make to God right now?




Sunday, February 5, 2017

Annual Growth: #SquadGoals

Read Ephesians 4:1–6

Introduction and Summary:

The first three chapters of Ephesians mention "in Christ" 27 times. Paul repeatedly makes the point that when we decide to follow Jesus, we take on a new identity in Christ. Chapter 4 now transitions to "if that is who you are, then (THEREFORE...first word of chapter 4) this is how you should live."

One real problem I think we all would agree with is that Christians do not always act like Christians or as the name means, "Christ ones."

In order for a believer to grow and mature in their faith, they must live inside the instructions and blessings of God. Unfortunately, many believers' lives are marked by not experiencing the peace, joy and satisfaction that comes from living for the Lord.

Paul wrote this epistle to the early churches to urge believers to walk worthy of their vocation. In other words, to live like what God has called them to be.

Group Discussion:

How is a "worthy life" defined and measured in verse 1?

What are the 4 things listed in verse 2 that we as Christians are called to do? (Humble, Gentle, Patient, Forgiving)

1. Humble (put others before self)

What is humility?

What's a real example of how you can humble yourself?

How does your perspective towards others change when you humble yourself?

How would you begin to be more like Christ if you humbled yourself daily?

Other verses to discuss - James 4:10, 1 Peter 5:5-6

2. Gentleness (strength under control)

How can you gently use the gifts, abilities and strengths that God has given you?

What happens when you use those same gifts, abilities and strengths with reckless abandon?

What's one or two areas that you need to immediately apply the trait of gentleness to? How will you do this?

3. Patience (long-suffering; enduring discomfort without complaint)

How does your relationship with God affect how patient you are?

Why is patience a virtue? (Galatians 5:22-23)

Control freaks, what are you going to do about this? How can you change?

4. Forgiveness (making allowance for the faults of others)

Why is forgiveness one of the hardest things to do?

What does not forgiving someone else say about you?

How could extending forgiveness heal a relationship? How might it heal the other person? How might it heal you?

Closing Question and Thought:

Those are the 4 WHAT TO DO's, but what is the WHY behind the WHAT? WHY do we do these? (Because of what God has done for us.)

Praise and worship God for all He has done for you!